ECTOPIC PREGNANCY: I Was Looking To Get Married But Nobody Wanted To Marry Me- Nollywood Actress Shares Her Story
Ayo Binta Mogaji, a Nollywood veteran actress, has opted to share how she was looking forward to settling down but none of her male counterparts were willing to marry her, despite the fact that she was a responsible lady at the time.
Ayo Mogaji, who discussed the topic in an interview with her Nollywood industry colleague, Abiola Ayomide Adebayo, a few hours ago, said that her most memorable experience as a young lady was her inability to marry.
According to the seasoned actress, she was looking forward to getting married, but no one was willing to marry her, despite the fact that she was not promiscuous. She later met with a lawyer, who got her pregnant while he was still married. Unfortunately, the pregnancy was ectopic and she had to undergo a surgery which lasted almost 9 hours.
In her own words:
“I was looking out to get married but nobody was ready to marry me, even though I was a jolly good fellow but I was not promiscuous. And when they see that there’s nothing, they leave me.
“So there was this lawyer man who wanted to really marry me because he had been in his marriage for up to 14 years and they never had a child. And he took me to his mom, me I was looking for a child and I wanted to be with an educated person as well. So we didn’t introduction, we weren’t living together because at that time he was still living with his wife. But I got pregnant.”
Below are some of the reactions from social media users;
Alo Stephen: Smoking or drinking does not make one promiscuous. Atimes, frustration leads to such habit. Someone said smoking is not common then, go to lle Ife, you will see old and young women smoking. In the seventies, it was at Ife that i know women can also smoke. This life has two sides of a coin please. God be with everyone.
Ofoke: Such is the life of those Actores who have no Man as their match, no man equal to their level, no man will be the head of the family, the man is not rich go. I wish that the beautiful today will learn from you.” Oladipo: “You’ re promiscuous then. She smokes and drinks beer ar open space then, even while going on the
street you’ II see her smoking cigarette.” Ete: ” with all due respect Ma, I don’t agree with you that no Man was ready to marry you in your youth, rather you were as picky as materialistic women of nowadays who prefer to be baby mamas to married men cuz of money than to marry struggling young Men, which is why you got pregnant for your married lover who’s a lawyer, every women, no matter how ugly or poverty striken always have Men who are attracted to them but you choose to reject them!” Laide: She smokes heavily, I was told,
when smoking wasn’t common amongst women. I’m not that sure it’s the reason for the suitors delay.”
Olalere: “She was not promiscuous, but she drinks and smoke heavily. I was privileged to meet her once and my experience with her was disgusting. How would a reasonable man take such a woman home as a wife. Not just possible. “