Why You Should Stop Telling Your Boyfriend Everything About Your Past – Relationship Schools Women
Controversial relationship expert, Blessing Okoro better known as Blessing CEO has advised couples to refrain from telling each other everything about their past to avoid being judged.
READ ALSO, My Fiancée Wants Me To Allow Her Sleep With Another Man Before Our Wedding – Man Seeks Advice The relationship guru made the assertion on a recent relationship-focused episode of the Pulse Hot Takes podcast, She emphasised how relationships should maintain some degree of confidentiality about one other’s pasts.
“I don’t believe in telling your boyfriend everything about your past because old things have passed away and all things have become new. The only thing you should be able to tell your partner is things that affect them,” she said.
Blessing stressed that people are Inherently judgmental, therefore it is possible to face judgement after disclosing certain personal information.
“When I start telling him things like ‘ I had sugar daddy’s when I was in school’, let me tell you how the human mind works. Naturally, we are judgmental no matter what. If someone walks in here in a skimpy skirt, even if you don’t say it your eyes would have already judged the person. That’s why I always tell women to learn to shut up, and men ‘What do you want to know?” she said.
She went on to advise people to forget their partner’s pasts when getting into a new relationship because human beings judge without knowing it at times.
“It doesn’t help to want to know everything, it kills the relationship. When you meet someone, forget their past, they’re like brand new. It’s like selling your phone, they will format and wipe it first. Our minds are like computers, If someone tells us about their past, we would subconsciously judge them, and mark the word ‘subconsciously’. Why do want to know her past, many men dig up things that they can’t bury. Men say they want the truth but can they take the truth, let the past be the past,” she said.
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